Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #1989339 in Books
• Published on: 2002-05
• Original language: English
• Binding: Paperback
• 84 pages

From the Publisher
In approaching a man in today's society, there are more risks and repercussions than at any time in history.

You're an upstanding, and for the most part, a pretty decent woman. You see a wonderful man passing by in your life and you approach him. He may take one hard look at you, or a brief glance, and then with his body language, he shrugs you off by turning up his nose in the air, doing an about face, and walking away giving you the big time brush off. Or worse, he says something nasty like "Get lost!" or "I'm not interested!" and walks away. For a woman, a man's rejection can be devastating. It's excruciatingly painful, humiliating, downright cruel and demeaning. It can blow one's ego and self-esteem to a complete zero. What a cruel, miserable fate when a man blows you off. You walk away feeling dejected and fatally wounded from the scorn of a venomous viper or male barracuda who takes real pleasure in eating you alive.

Let's examine a man who suffers from men's issues, extreme negativity, violence, and hostility. He is full of psychic poison, which can handicap a woman into total destruction. A sick or twisted and distorted man, who is on a rampage, has no respect for women in general. He is a real woman-hater who will deceive, take, use, destroy you and leave you for shark bait.

Men have been given power, fame, and authority and are backed up by every federal, state, county, and city organization that you can imagine. The news media, pornography, and commercials have acted as a bad influence on today's men. As a result, this power, control, fame, and authority has gone to a lot of men's heads. A man having no respect for a woman becomes some sort of blood-thirsty warlord who's out to conquer the first strange woman who crosses his path. This type of man looks at niceness as a weakness. When you approach this type of man, you're actually setting yourself up on the chopping block like a lamb for slaughter. Now instead of being defeated and destroyed by a scorned man on a woman hunt, you are going to be shown how to develop psychological defenses to protect yourself with an emotional, mental, and spiritual coat of armour. You may be cast down by devious men, but from now on you will not be destroyed nor impeded from accomplishing your mission(breaking the ice with a healthy-minded man who's wonderful from the skin to the bone).

The complexity of a man's ego has a tremendous influence on his thinking, temperament, attitude, mental capacity, and ability to function in a civil manner. Most men(when it comes to employment, making money, and all that it takes to enchance his lifestyle), can pour on a personality and temperament that is sweet as pie. But when it comes to a personal relationship, the focus becomes twisted and distorted. Their expectations of what they want in a woman become totally unreal. This is where they pick and choose. Prepare for the worst, especially as an unknown trying to meet him out of the blue. His defences go up and a brick fortress surrounds his entire being which prevents a woman from entering his world. Diet, eating habits, smoking, drugs, and alcohol have caused today's men a lot of emotional and psychological problems, frustrations, and setbacks. There are chemicals in the brain and when these chemicals become unbalanced, due to lack of vitamins, nutrition, heredity, family upbringing, trauma, or whatever, then horrid and erratic behavior is inevitable. With this type of condition, men suffer in a negative manner, showing anger, hate, malice, and big time scorn. These type of men are in need of professional help.

As you approach men, you're going to encounter many of them with men's issues. This enables you to prepare yourself and will give you a better understanding to make the right choices with the right man. You will be able to locate a man whom you want who's strong and healthy minded.

With this new knowledge, it's important that you condition your mind to no longer let a scorned or disturbed man hurt you. And it's important to realize that a scorned man is the one who is really suffering and hurting, not you. Do not try to be a miracle worker with a man who is mentally unhealthy. You're asking for trouble and a life of misery. Walk away from him.

You're a female suitor, not a psychiatrist who wants a wonderful man from the skin to the bone who is strong and healthy minded. Andrew Carnegie once said, "You have to dig tons and tons of dirt to find a few ounces of gold." In your quest in breaking the ice with a wonderful man, you're not looking for the dirt, you're looking for prince charming.

The art of conversation is used to break the ice with a wonderful man who crosses your path. Extend your hand and say "Hello my name is Jane. What's yours?" It's a psychological fact he will give you his name, for the most part. If the man is disturbed, be prepared for the worst. If he attempts to blow you away, look into his eyes and smile. Say in a nice way, "Thank you for your time and I appreciate your honesty. Then walk away. Destroy evil with kindness. If he's pleasant on the other hand and gives you his name, then say it's great to meet you and ask him one important question. Where does a really nice lady take a really nice man for a cup of coffee or a bite to eat? If he mentions a place, say it would be my pleasure if you would be my guest at such and such a place he just mentioned. If he says "Yes, you're in. If he says "No, try the same ice breaking technique with someone else. Keep trying until you succeed.

When approaching him, you look at him face-to-face and make direct eye contact only. Do not look at him up or down, left or right, or freeze yourself in a position of staring at him to the point where he become uncomfortable.Look at him as you would your best friend and realize the greatest way to obtain a friend is to be a friend.

From the Author
I remember watching a TV show where the host was interviewing a movie star/karate champ who shall go nameless. The host asked her what the secret of her success was, and the karate gal looked at him in that sensuous way of hers and said: When I started out competing in Karate Tournaments, I wasn't that good. I got beat a lot, but I always learned from my mistakes. Instead of crying over my losing, I just studied what I would have to do differently the next time, and whenever I met the same opponent again or a different opponent in the same situation, I always beat "em". Look - unless you are unusually lucky, chances are you are going to make a few mistakes as you practice the ideas in this book. And as great as these concepts are, they won't work every time. Unless you know how to learn from your mistakes and accept an occasional loss, you will get nowhere. The most successful women at winning a man's heart, that I know, all have two great strengths. First, they have the positive attitude that we've just looked at. Second, they know how to accept getting rejected without it bothering them. They learn from their mistakes! Allow my book How To Date And Marry A Wonderful Man show you the way to unlock the door of his heart and date him indefinitely.

From the Inside Flap
National Model Chris Steele was chosen to be on the front cover because of his special inner qualities that women are looking for in a man, that money cannot buy. He is a real promise keeper and a great role model as the ideal Wonderful Man. His word is his bond and he knows how to be loyal to his mate. He approaches life as a learning experience, using failure to challenge himself. Chris believes you are only defeated when you quit trying.